Monday, April 20, 2009

Marriage is for Keeps

I thought this was a great message from church yesterday, so I just have to share it. From my notes:

MARRIAGE IS FOR KEEPS
Psalm 127:1 "Unless the LORD builds the house, its builders labor in vain."

Three things we can learn from relationships:
1. How to relate (Ephesians 4:32)
2. Character (Luke 2:52)
3. Values (Deut. 6:6-7)

Five things that make marriage tough:
1. Men and Women are Different
2. A worldly concept of marriage
3. Selfishness (James 4:1-2)
4. A lack of relational skills
5. Misplaced affections (Genesis 2:15)

Six secrets to a lasting marriage:
1. Communication (Proverbs 12:18)--Did you know that the average American couple spends 47 hours watching TV per week, and only 30 minutes conversing??
2. Consideration (Ephesians 4:2, 1 Peter 3:7)
3. Compromise (1 Corinthians 13:5)
4. Courtship--If there was more courting in marriage, there would be fewer marriages in court!
5. Committment (Malachi 2:16)
6. Christ (Philippians 2:2-5)

2 comments:

  1. I love this, this is so true! If you want a great bible study Fireproof then do the love dare book. Great application to your marriage!

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  2. A close friend gave me the movie "Fireproof" for my birthday and we loved it. Thanks for your kind words.

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